This would almost be impossible to define but I reckon one that would come close is the old line, ‘If you really love me you will have sex with me!’ What pains me is that it would work on so many women. In reality if a woman would stand back from the situation for a bit and think she would realize that a man who really loved her would not put her in such a position. Therefore were she to refuse and love did exist but he let his urges take over in the heat of the moment, he would understand the error of his way and would continue the relationship. If on the other hand he was to walk, then there was never any love in the relationship, there was only lust and she would be better off without him.
There are some women today who figure that they will pay man back for all the shit he has heaped on women throughout the ages by playing with his emotions and giving him sex and then moving on. Shit lady, sex was what he wanted in the first hand, and the fact that it came without a relationship was an added bonus and so she has actually played right into his pants, so to speak.
Then there are those young women/girls of today who believe that a blow job is not sex. This myth was probably perpetrated by Bill Clinton and Monika Lewinski in that he insisted that sexual relations excluded his receiving oral sex. This seems to be the spark that lighted the blow job explosion much to every young males delight. Ladies, I am sorry to tell you that oral sex is indeed entwined with the term of having sexual relations, you are simply swapping one orifice for another.
In essence one could safely say that it is true that man has perpetrated much bullshit onto women but the sad fact is that women have actually allowed this to take place. It is time for women to stand tall and dictate the superiority they profess to have on man.
I would just like to finish off with a little poem.
When you asked me out that day
I thought it too good to be true
My insides all a flutter, I said OK
Oh if I only knew what would pursue
Why did you wait so long?
Why do I feel this way?
My heart is beating like a gong
Please don’t lead me astray
You took me out that night
We had a burger fries and a shake
We talked about the things that might
Affect us and the paths we would take
I can’t believe I am with you
It’s like it’s meant to be
What would you do if you knew?
How much you meant to me
You drove to a secluded spot
You parked the car the night so still
And in my mouth your tongue it shot
Too much too quick it was no thrill
Why must you go so fast?
This is all too new, I’m so scared
I want to make this last
I really thought you cared
Not satisfied your hands did grope
As you fondled my breast I’m shocked
Too much too soon I could not cope
Our mouth together our lips were locked
Why must you be so rough?
It wasn’t supposed to be like this
Please, I think I’ve had enough
Why can’t we just kiss?
My mind was numb senses reeling
I pushed him away and told him NO
My breasts you bastard you kept feeling
The next step not where I wished to go
Mom was right, I’m not ready
I should have listened and stayed at home
I wish he would stop already
He’s like a beast his mouth all foam
You pull away face contorted
I did no wrong so don’t blame me
The name you used when you retorted
A light bulb moment, now I can see
No piece of meat to be used
I’m a person that needs respect
No-one’s feelings should be abused
Those sorts of guys you should reject.
I like this post quite alot. I feel like I once knew how that girl in the poem felt (when I was young and nieve of course). Interesting to read it and think on it.
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